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Speak Life


Death and life are in the power of the tongue. That means we can kill a thing before it is born.

We can kill a blessing before it can start growing roots.

A seed can be placed in the soil, but what we use to water it will determine whether it breakthrough the soil, or it dies in it.

Discipline yourself to not speak negative words over your life.

Discipline yourself to speak words of encouragement and hope over your life.

Remind yourself that you don’t always have to have a response for everything.

Learn to cancel the evil that is spoken, and superimpose the word of God over what is spoken over you, your children, your business, your partner, your destiny.

Some battles are not physical. Some battles come in the form of words—words spoken by strangers, friends, family members, or yourself.

Proverbs reminds us that: a wise woman builds her house, but the foolish plucks it down with her hands.

Don’t be that foolish woman. Practice building your house with your words. In this case, your house is your destiny, your purpose. Build your purpose through the words that you speak. Speak life. 

Use your divine power to create blessings around you and your community, and not curses and destruction.

God spoke the world into existence. Even though we learn that physically the earth took billions of years to formulate, it started with a word. The word was spoken, and billions of years later it came to pass physically.

Don’t take this power for granted. This same power is in you too. And thanks be to God, what you speak will not take billions of years. So watch the words that you are speaking. 

Speak life.